I am in the process of updating some of my histories and putting pictures and mementos in my journals. I came upon this "presentation" Stacey gave to our family when we were in Thailand in 2007. It is entitled HEROES and it goes like this:
There's a hero, if you look inside your heart, you don't have to be afraid of what you are. There's an answer, if you search within your soul and the hurt that you know will melt away...Then a hero comes along, with the strength to carry on and you push your cares aside and know you can survive, so if you feel like hope is gone...look inside you and be strong and you'll finally see the truth, that the hero lies in you...
Who among us is a hero...
The early pioneers of the church. They left their homes, lands and inheritance to follow in the footsteps of faith a young prophet boy who, by the power of God, set forth the establishment of his true church in the Land of Zion. How often do we awake and say, "Gee I'm grateful for my ancestors who trekked across the plains in blinding sun and bitter cold...losing loved ones along the way so i can partake of the blessings of the restored gospel? Does our family know of the reverence we feel when we ponder the sacrifice of these early pioneers?
Who among us is a hero...
The Presidents of our Country. They have protected and governed, fought for liberties and justice, they too have governed our freedoms: to vote, to worship and have equal rights. How often do we awake and say, "Golly, our government is really top notch. It must be difficult to govern an entire country when half of them have "I hate Bush" decals on their bumpers. Do our neighbors know of the patriotism which we hold for our founding fathers?
Who among us is a hero...
The teachers in our schools. Our children are in their care 8 hours out of the day. They are those who mold and shape their futures. From learning how to write the alphabet to algebra. How often do we awaken and say "I really appreciate the knowledge and care my children's teachers bestow upon them...and for little pay I might add. Do our children know what the impact education will make in their lives?
Who among us is a hero...
Christ. He is the center of our lives. He is the reason we are here. He has made us who we are. It is his Father's test we are here to take. I am certain we awaken every day and say, "I am thankful for all that the Lord has blessed me with." Do WE know how important HE is in our lives? If we are willing to pattern our lives after HIM, then I can answer one last question...
Who among us is a hero...
I AM!!! We all need hero's to honor and admire. So many figures that come in and out of our lives can make an impact. What sweeter knowledge than knowing YOU have been a hero in someones life. While contemplating this assignment, I have thought about my own children. Who is their hero? The fuzziest feeling I get as a mother is when my children put their arms around me and tell me what a great mother I am....usually it's in conjunction to buying them a gator-ade and candy bar, but it's 10 times better when prompted directly from their hearts. One Mother's Day Griffin wrote me a poem, he was 9. The simplicity of it brought me to tears:
My mom is unique
She is a biker, biking almost as fast as Lance Armstrong
She is a walker, walking all around the neighborhood
She is a Sunday School teacher, with 12 girls in her class!
She is an exercise club teacher, pushing people as hard as she can
She is an exerciser, from doing marathons to iron mans
She is a Mormon going to church with me
She is a reader, reading the Book of Mormon
She is a salad eater, eating big bowls of salad every day
She is a mom, my mom
I love her.
It's been told to us time and time again, that there is no greater calling than to rear our children in love and righteousness. From that will stem respect. From that will stem love. From that will stem honor, and WITH that perhaps we shall become that HERO.
That's why we call them hero's. That's why we know their names and once you've heard their story...you're never quite the same. That's why we call them hero's, the best thing they ever do...is point to the best in us all, and say, "If I can, you can too."
Let's look at the story of a hero here tonight. Look around you, can you guess who I'm thinking of? There's an activity we play in FHE called Spotlight. Each Monday night I focus on a member of the family. I start out by saying the things this person does or likes and eventually the answers become personalized to that one individual. It goes like so:
This person likes cookies. This person likes to shop. This person likes to travel. This person like to read. This person likes to bike. This person likes to spend time with family. This person likes bunnies. This person is very creative. This person likes to decorate. This person drinks diet cola. This person eats cookies for breakfast. This person forgets when they loan you money :) This person is a movie star...no, that's Diane Keaton. This person is a mother.
Stacey with her daughter, Kennedy, in 2007.

This person changed 100's of diapers. This person stayed up late with sick daughters. This person took girls to dance, piano, ballet, violin and cello. This person held foofetts. This person made a beautiful home This person said nightly prayers with her children. This person thanked the Lord for trials and blessings. This person taught her daughters to love and reach out to those in need, to recognize everyone as children of our Father in Heaven. This person asked her daughters to skip school to enjoy a day of bonding together. This person admired her father, loved and honored him. This person documented her life and gave us the example to do the same. This person upholds her family heritage and instills in her daughters the reasons to do likewise. This person shows her daughters everyday the joy she found with the man she married. This person brings the spirit into family home evenings in creative and unforgettable ways. This person goes to great lenghts to show love for her grandchildren. This person has helped so many members in our family This person has been a hero to every single one of us.
She has listened to that prompting that on more than one occasion may have brought her to your bedroom door, your front door, or perhaps your telephone. She has given of herself and helped you rise from whence you had fallen. She has been the rock of your foundation whether through the influence of friends dragging you to lowly ground, raising children as a single mother, financial burdens of life or the heartache that prevails from decisions made on a path unworthy of travel.
Even outside of our own family unit we see her path as it winds it's way into the lives and homes of others. She is like Gretel, dropping crumbs along the path of Earth Life. We are then picking up these crumbs and partaking of her goodness and generosity. She won't need that trail to return home, because the path she is taking and the crumbs she is dropping will eventually lead to our Father in Heaven. Then wouldn't it make sense if we follow her example that we are following Christ's example. We are following that path that will lead us to become the HERO we know is inside us.
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and then a hero comes along with the strength to carry on and you know you can survive, so if you feel like hope is gone, look inside you and be strong. And you'll finally see the truth that the HERO lies in you.
Obviously I loved this presentation! It has reminded me of the opportunity we all have on a daily basis to influence the lives of those around us. Many times we don't even realize that we are being watched and emulated. Thanks again Stacey, for such a loving tribute.